That's not what I said - and I don't actually speak for the mods here, so take this for what it's worth. We have a very friendly and civilised community here, and many members (not just the mods) would like to keep it that way.
If you want to be able to trash talk and whatnot, which I know can be a large part of the PvP fun, you might want to check out some of the other server-dedicated boards.
Again... this is just my opinion. I don't represent Spheres.
Edit - and hey, nice blog!