Said well enough. Isn't it hard to have a brain full of things and not know what to say first?
My hubby played UO, so I'm kinda familiar. I liked the original EQ way, too. You really had to take time to recover, and that's when you learn about other abilities of the players around you, and back then, others were WILLING...
*GASP*...to do just that and went out of their way to do it, and even maybe help you figure out what you did wrong!
Boy...wouldn't it be nice to return to the "age of innocence?"